The Bosch is an efficient motor, but then so is the Shimano. That said, yes a new battery in a new Bosch should be more efficient. I just think that you should stay away from the edge. At your size, really what's an extra 1 kg?
I paid a 50% DP on the Antidote. I'm still very eager to receive the bike, hopefully even this year, as without riding the bike it really does check off all of my priorities including Bosch CX-R with Kiox400 display, 600w fixed battery, High Pivot, longer reach, longer CS, adjustability, good dropper insertion, high end layup, etc. I think that they are a really cool brand.
That said I just went through my e-mails, the last time they responded to an e-mail of mine was October 14th (so nearly 2 months ago) and I've sent 6 e-mails to them since then. About half asking for an update and the other half asking technical questions. All e-mails were friendly and just requesting updates, where-as one I questioned where they would be when I actually needed support or a part that I imagine that they did not appreciate. When I placed the deposit on Sept 16 I was told about 4-6 weeks until I received the frame, but I never expected that date to hold but I do think weekly updates to deposit holders (there are several) is a reasonable request. The hope is that I open up PB one morning and right there at the top is the official release for the new Antidote e-bike and they then e-mail me saying that mine is ready to ship with photos and they are ready for final payment. The nightmare is a Pole, YT, etc. type of situation.
If for some reason it didn't work out and I got my money back, I'd probably buy the Regulator but nothing else out there super excites me. I also really like the Trek Slash-E for my terrain as I don't have mountains, just quite rough AM trails, and can only get about 130'/ mile.