This was what I was going to suggest when I read the first post.
And then suddenly, without warning by post number 3 it's being suggested that you sell it and but another bike
You don't need to pull the bike into the air. If you're twisting in the air, it's because you weren't balanced on the bike before you left the ground.
By the time you hit the lip, the bike should want to leave the ground, you're just guiding it and hopefully hanging on until it lands. You shouldn't have to make the bike jump.
I'd look at your suspension settings first of all. Air pressure, rebound and LsC damping will all be in play when you try to leave the ground. The fork and the shock both need to be set correctly and need to be balanced to one another.
If you've got a fast rebounding shock and slow fork or visa versa, you'll be all over the place when you jump. Same if the fork is too soft and the shock too hard for example.
I'd hazard a guess that maybe the fork rebound is too slow and that's why you feel you're having to pull up into the jump.
I know you say your enduro bike jumps fine, what fork and shock does that have? Guessing more travel?