It seems to me that these videos have been edited at exactly the point where things go south... the first at 2:38 the second at 13:34.
I use 32-34 psi at the rear tyre, with inner tubes filled with stans sealant, thats the best way I've found to avoid flats , it seals small puncutres and makes it possible to patch the tyre.
I allways carry a tube, small pump, co2 to use if in a a hurry, patches for tubes and tyres.
It was funny while riding at the Forest of Dean last year, I came across a bunch of guys aging fom 17 to 50 yo, all around an ebike trying to fix a flat rear tyre, they stopped me to ask if I had a pump. It was hard for me to understand what the guy was saying, because my spoken english is not so good but mostly because that situation sounded really absurd: six guys riding bikes and no one had a pump?!? maybe they all had a co2 inside the pocket

In the end his tyre did not hold air and he left in pushbike mode, saying he lived nearby.