Hopefully you've actually read through the 2+yr old thread you've just posted in?
You don't say what Deore drivetrain you're running. Deore is now available in 10, 11 and 12 speed configurations. 10 speed is the most cost effective and durable option of the 3 by far and the 12 speed microspline option the least durable/cost effective by far.
any cassette with a 10t smallest sprocket and 51t large sprocket is just asking for trouble as chain wrap in the smaller sprockets is already reduced massively from the rear mech's top jockey wheel needing more clearance (B-tension) in order for the mech to shift to the larger sprockets. when in a 10t sprocket (top gear) the chain only ever contacts 4 sprockets at a time. Under Ebike loads that's just a recipe for disaster and will cause the chain to slip under load even before the chain is worn to 0.75.
This thread is old. for a few years now I have been running 10 speed deore 11-36 cassette, SRAM 1130 chain and a 36t chinese NW chainring ring. This also allows me to run a Zee short cage rear mech and run the top jocket wheel much closer to the saccette sprockets increasing chain wrap greatly and I get over 4000miles from a single cassette/chain and chainring. (around £55-60 for the lot)
The 11 speed SLX 11-40, and 1130 chain with an XT medium cage rear mech I was using when this thread started used to get me somewhere around 2500-3000miles.
I just bin and replace the cassette, chain and chainring when it starts to slip in the smallest sprockets. Chain wear is off the scale well before that point.
jockey wheels generally last a few drivetrain replacements before showing wear
To be wearing out shimano cassettes to the point of slipping in just 230miles you're probably either running too much b-tension (which greatly reduces chainwrap in the smallest sprockets), shifting a lot less smoothly than you think is required, shifting under load, not looking after the drivetrain components all that well, riding in really harsh conditions, or using the smaller sprockets a lot more than you ever did with your mtbs. All of which increase drivetrain wear and being new to Emtb you're more than likely guilty of combination of a few these things TBH.