I have fixed the problem and it is entirely down to the hub of your wheelset. My local dealer installed the groupset and he already told me that he had to move the derailleur completely inwards with the micro-adjustment. He said it was quite strange, but I gave it a try. When I rode I had exactly the same problem with the third sprocket. We contacted Sram and they gave us the attached explanation. So we measured the distance and it was outside the supported range. After changing the wheel with a "supported hub" everything worked perfectly and the transmission shifted perfectly.
So all the stuff about software updates, starting the installation with a different micro-adjustment or whatever won't solve the problem. If you have the problem, it is most likely your wheelset. So I had the choice of going back to my old XX1 or buying a new set of wheels (at least the rear one). I opted for a new set of wheels and am very happy with the performance of the transmission.
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